Taking a look at the past week, I thought it was important to share with you a time that has been harder for me to cope with than anything yet at this school. In the past few weeks I have learned what it means to be a leader amongst my shipmates, what it really means to be strong for shipmates and to support them through the roughest of waters.
It all started a week and a half ago when I went to a soccer game against Connecticut College to support my friends, called the Whale Cup. The game was introduced to the Corps of the Cadets with freshmen making whale noises into the microphone, and all were encouraged to attend the game wearing spirit gear. I donned my spirit T-shirt and a pair of black leggings, and headed down to the game. I sat with some friends and cheered the whole time, the game was highly attended and a lot of our senior leadership was in the stands.
The next day my company chief came to my room and informed me that I needed to go down with him to meet with the Assistant Commandant of Cadets. I found myself at the Commandant of Cadets conference table and there he sat in front of me due to the fact that I wore black leggings to the soccer game, and they had not been technically authorized for game attendance (they were allowed to be worn while working out). I was sentenced to two weeks of restriction and two marching tours and four work hours. All for wearing leggings. As a side note, I want you to know that I love being in the Coast Guard (see previous blogs) and I am super excited to graduate BUT this is not the end of my story.
Okay so I am restricted for two weeks, which means that I am not allowed to leave school at all or be out of uniform during the workday. Then I found out that my classmate Ricky Davies passed away this weekend. I had had every class with Ricky all through my time at the Academy, we were the same major and he was a dear friend. Dealing with this kind of tragedy was and is crazy for me. As an always very positive person, I have never really had to cope with such negativity and while I could come closer to the men’s soccer team to find comfort and support, the Academy never stops.
It actually hit me this week that being an officer or even being an adult in real life means that you can’t shut down once you are hit with even the worst news. Life doesn’t stop. In fact, the day after Ricky died, I had to help a teammate with a very serious issue, and after that, my company had an inspection that went poorly and we were punished for that further.
I hate to write such a negative blog (sorry again) but I just want you all to know that as much fun as I have here, it definitely takes a strong person, or a person who can learn to be strong to go through a place like this. The rewards are worth the effort, but none of it is easy. And it will never be the same for you as it is for someone else. Some people struggle with grades here, others with not being able to live like their friends at normal college, others with being so busy that you lose time for yourself. Just know that the friends you make and the lessons you learn are irreplaceable and that it really does challenge you to become bigger than yourself.
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